Monday, March 2, 2015

LEADERSHIP TRAITS

Respectful
Treating others with respect will ultimately earn respect.

Martin Luther King Jr.

Honesty
Whatever ethical plane you hold yourself to, when you are responsible for a team of people, it's important to raise the bar even higher. Your business and its employees are a reflection of yourself, and if you make honest and ethical behavior a key value, your team will follow suit.
Abraham Lincoln


Integrity
They are people who are respected and worth listening to. I find in general due to all of the economic difficulties, employees prioritize and seek leaders and organizations that are honest and meet their commitments.

Vision
Great leaders have vision. They can see into the future. They have a clear, exciting idea of where they are going and what they are trying to accomplish and are excellent at strategic planning.

Ferdinand Marcos

Consistency
Being a consistent leader will gain you respect and credibility, which is essential to getting buy-in from the group. By setting an example of fairness and credibility, the team will want to act the same way.

Nelson Mandela

Saturday, January 31, 2015

I Will Rise

I Will Rise
By: Sagar Yadav
I will rise
After every fall
I will rise
and stand even more tall
I will rise
over the wall
I will rise
above them all
Like the sun
which never dies
though sets every night
every day it does rise
Like the ocean
whose tides
many times they are down
but invariably they rise
Like the trees
from seeds they arise
and heights great
they rise and rise
After falling once,
twice and thrice
Again and again
I will rise and rise
I will rise
after every fall
After every fall
I will rise


I will rise, a poem made by a great writer Sagar Yadaw. This poem may not be made with sophistication and complexity. It maybe just using simple borders, light words and literal meanings. For me, that is the best thing about this poem. Its simplicity and literalism makes the poem more attractive, more specific and extraordinary.
This poem is all about rising every time you fall. Why? Life is a game, full of obstacles. You will, and you will fall down from time to time. Well, that's life. But, life is all about falling down 8 times and rising up 9 times. Everyone falls once in a while, what matters is how you will be standing up. Like Michael Jordan said "I've failed over and over again in my life, and that is why i succeed". And it shows in Sagar's first stanza "I will rise adter every fall. I will rise and stand more tall"
I remember my dad telling me to be the best of what i can be, to break barriers of those who stands in my way. Maybe this is what D. Rose meant when he said "Rise above all". Will Smith also once said "don't let anyone tell you what to do and what you cant do". We have to face every trial, win it, and i guarantee you will be seeing the light first. Never lose hope, one day you name will be on top. But of course all great things must be achieved, dreams are never given it is earned
"Like oceans whose tides, many times they are down , but invariably they rise" this line for me is one of the best. Very meaningful and explicit. This line is life itself. Like what i've said a while ago, you will fall. Even the best fall sometimes. What matters is how we come back up." 
"Like trees from seeds they arise, and the heights great they rise and rise." If we continue standing and climbing after tripping we will be having our rightful place.
Do not look where you fell, but where you slipped. Look at your mistakes, not the consequences. Learn from them and rise above them. The more you rise the higher you become. For everything you have missed, you have gained something else. The moment we fall is also the moment we we take the lead. Once we fell we should use this, hold this, take control of the game and this will lead us to winning. We should take control of our lives in order to win.
I remember the famous line of Aubrey Hepburn "There is no such thing as impossible, the word itself says "I'M POSSIBLE" never think things are impossible, for that would be your down fall.
After falling once, twice and thrice. Again and again, i will rise and rise. I will rise after every fall. After every fall i will rise. Rise above hate, rise above fall, rise above everything and every one. Falling is having the opportunity to put the lead in our hands. And we should knock it down. We should be stepping up and we should never give up. Cause thats the heart of a winner.

After Us

After Us
Connie Wanek
I don't know if we're in the beginning
or in the final stage.
                    -- Tomas Tranströmer
Rain is falling through the roof.
And all that prospered under the sun,
the books that opened in the morning
and closed at night, and all day
turned their pages to the light;
the sketches of boats and strong forearms
and clever faces, and of fields
and barns, and of a bowl of eggs,
and lying across the piano
the silver stick of a flute; everything
invented and imagined,
everything whispered and sung,
all silenced by cold rain.
The sky is the color of gravestones.
The rain tastes like salt, and rises
in the streets like a ruinous tide.
We spoke of millions, of billions of years.
We talked and talked.
Then a drop of rain fell
into the sound hole of the guitar, another
onto the unmade bed. And after us,
the rain will cease or it will go on falling,
even upon itself.
            “After Us” by Connie Wanek, This is the 24th poem in the website Poetry 180, Created by Billy Collins, an American poet. There are many good literary pieces or poems but this poem really caught my attention. By just reading the title i was able to construct a question in my mind. What can really happen after us? That’s the question constructed in my mind. And me being curious and all clicked the poem “After us” and decided to have a review about this poem.  The title is very interesting and the way the poet made this words is very logical and it makes the poem more interesting because she uses metaphors and imagery. Almost every line in this poem has deeper meanings and that makes it more interesting. This poem is about our life. What will happen after us. Will things be the same after us? Or will something change when we are gone. 
         
            As I was reading the poem I noticed that the writer uses imagery so that the reader can picture the poem. In the first line of the poem the writer talks about the rain. How can it affect on our daily lives. And in the next lines she says about how the rain can turn the light into darkness and those who prosper in the light turn away to find the light they desperately need. I realized that in that paragraph the reader talks about how the rain can help us and how the rain can destroy us. In the second paragraph, the poet writes about an image of a perfect place where there is peace and no one to disturb it. The third paragraph talks about the destruction that a rain can do. How can it silence everything invented and imagined. In the fourth paragraph the poet says that the sky is the color of gravestones which is a metaphor that pictures death. The poet talks about how the rain can destroy things again. After that the poet talked about the past how we talked about it millions of billions of years. The last paragraph talks about the rain again and that it will continue to fall no matter what we do. We can’t stop it


            After reading the poem, I realized that the poem is about our life. And the question in my head a while ago has an answer right now. What really happens after us is the sun will still rise and the rain will still fall and life just continues. The people around us will just move on and continue their lives.  No matter what we have than to them no matter who we are to them life still goes on. They will just mourn for our lost for a while and continue to live their lives to the fullest. But we will never be forgotten we will always be in their hearts and in their minds. Just like a good memory that will never happen or be seen again. Life is an obstacle that never ends. In the poem there are good times and bad. But life still goes on no matter what happens.

The Necklace



The Necklace by Guy de Maupassant was a short story that really captivates me when we tackle about it in our English class during my high school years. The plot twist in the end was the one that made me like the story. At first, I really don’t know what to expect from the story since the title was just a piece of jewelry and it kinds of confuse me how will the necklace could be a great impact in the story.

The short story was about a girl named Mathilde who belongs to the family of artisans. She let herself be married off to a little clerk in the Ministry of Education. The story revolves around the company ball where she borrowed a necklace from her friend Madame Forestier and lost it on her way home. She and her husband replace it with a necklace that very much alike of the lost necklace that cost thirty-four thousand francs. They need to work hard to pay for the necklace for the next ten years and they look really old at that time. When Mathilde saw Forestier one day and still looking young, she bragged everything that happened ten years ago. Forestier then told Mathilde that the necklace that she lend to her was an imitation that cost five hundred francs.

I really love how the author wrote the story in a narrating manner and how he ended the story. It will make you think about what would be the reaction of Mathilde? Will she get the necklace back? Or Madame Forstier will keep the necklace and Mathilde will live in misery and regret? It is in the hand of the reader on what he/she wants to happen to the characters.

The story shows how Mathilde was unsatisfied of her life. The story also reflects to us people not being satisfied on what we have.  Sometimes achieving for the best thing could make us into something else. That we wouldn’t settle for simple things. It is not bad to seek for expensive things but we should always remember our limitations. Also, admitting your mistake will ease your guilt. You cannot cover a mistake with another mistake. It will just make the whole situation worse. It will also make you regret the things that you should have done sooner. 


I like how simple things could do a great impact in our life. It shows that attention and luxury is not just the only thing that could make us happy. Admitting our mistake is not that easy but sometimes it is the right thing to do. It will just complicate things just like what happened to Mathilde. I wonder if Mathilde didn’t lose the necklace or if she admitted it sooner, would she be happy with her life? Would she still be living her life like it is used to or would she still be seeking for luxury? The Necklace is a story that has an interesting point on how society affects our wants in life. That what we think is on the trend we would also want to have it just to be” belong” to the class. The simple jewelry made a lesson that we will be ought to remember and we would be carrying it throughout our lives.

God Says Yes To Me

God Says Yes To Me
Kaylin Haught
I asked God if it was okay to be melodramatic
and she said yes
I asked her if it was okay to be short
and she said it sure is
I asked her if I could wear nail polish
or not wear nail polish
and she said honey
she calls me that sometimes
she said you can do just exactly
what you want to
Thanks God I said
And is it even okay if I don't paragraph
my letters
Sweetcakes God said
who knows where she picked that up
what I'm telling you is
Yes Yes Yes


            As I was searching for a poem, a title caught my eye so I clicked it. It is a work of Kaylin Haught entitled “God Says Yes To Me.” This poem is the 126th poem on the website Poetry 180, created by Billy Collins, an American poet. I decided to analyze this poem because the title was very interesting as well as the words written in the poem. When I read it, I find it simple yet so heart warming. It is easy to understand compared to other poems. It is a conversation between God and a young girl, which makes it very interesting and adds flair to the poem. It is about a young girl who is unsure if it is alright to do random innocent acts or things that you just can't help.
            When I first read the poem, I noticed that the pronoun used for God is ‘she’ when the pronoun usually used is ‘he.’ Because of that, I thought God was representing a person, a mother perhaps. But from reading the poem over and over, I realized that God was God not representing anyone. The young girl does visualise her own God as a woman and someone who actually speaks to her. She has an independent mind not conforming to society's view of God as a man. She sees her god as a woman and even hears her responding to her random questions like if it was okay to be melodramatic, if her height was alright or not paragraphing her letters was okay in her God's eyes. I think deep down, the girl knew everything would be alright because her god would be behind her supporting her. "God Says Yes To Me" is exactly what a higher power should be doing encouraging a young person in their life and help them grow in their faith. It shows that the young lady has someone who is actually looking over her. 
            For me, there are two meanings of the poem. First is to be yourself, to be whatever you wanted to be, and to love yourself for who you are. By God answering yes to every questions the young girl asked, it is telling her that it is okay to have those simple acts in her life. Positivity is the tone of the poem. It helps us recognize that we are perfect the way we are. I think it is very important to have something like this in our life to keep reminding us to be ourselves and that we are perfect the way we are. The second one is to believe that God is there for us always. Everyone needs someone to believe in them and say yes. God wants us to be whoever we want to be and to accept our differences.

            “Yes Yes Yes,” God said to the young girl. We must keep in mind that God loves us so much, and is ready to give his yes by being good and true to ourselves.

READING LIST

NOVELS

1.     Pride and Prejudice (1813)

- By Jane Austen





Set in England in the early 19th century, Pride and Prejudice tells the story of Mr and Mrs Bennet's five unmarried daughters after the rich and eligible Mr Bingley and his status-conscious friend, Mr Darcy, have moved into their neighbourhood. While Bingley takes an immediate liking to the eldest Bennet daughter, Jane, Darcy has difficulty adapting to local society and repeatedly clashes with the second-eldest Bennet daughter, Elizabeth.

2.    THE DA VINCI CODE (2003)

- By Dan Brown





The story follows symbologist Robert Langdonand cryptologist Sophie Neveu after a murder in the Louvre Museum in Paris, when they become involved in a battle between the Priory of Sion and Opus Dei over the possibility of Jesus having been married to Mary Magdalene. The title of the novel refers, among other things, to the finding of the first murder victim in the Grand Gallery of the Louvre, naked and posed like Leonardo da Vinci's famous drawing, the Vitruvian Man, with a cryptic message written beside his body and a pentagram drawn on his chest in his own blood.

3.    Ender's Game (1985)

- By Orson Scott Card





Set in Earth's future, the novel presents an imperiled mankind after two conflicts with the "buggers", an insectoid alien species. In preparation for an anticipated third invasion, children, including the novel's protagonist, Ender Wiggin, are trained from a very young age through increasingly difficult games including some in zero gravity, where Ender's tactical genius is revealed.

4.   The Time Traveller’s Wife (2003)

- By Audrey Niffenegger




 It is a love story about a man with a genetic disorder that causes him to time travel unpredictably, and about his wife, an artist, who has to cope with his frequent absences and dangerous experiences. Niffenegger, frustrated in love when she began the work, wrote the story as a metaphor for her failed relationships. The tale's central relationship came to her suddenly and subsequently supplied the novel's title. The novel, which has been classified as both science fiction and romance, examines issues of love, loss, and free will. In particular, it uses time travel to explore miscommunication and distance in relationships, while also investigating deeper existential questions.

5.    AngelFall (2011)

- By Susan Ee




The angels attack the human world as a revenge for shooting down Angel Gabriel. 17-Year-old Penryn Young, her schizophrenic mother, and 7-year-old sister Paige struggle to survive in their destroyed city, with the threat of street gangs and angels. After witnessing a group of angels cutting off their fellow angel's wings while trying to relocate to a safe place, Paige is kidnapped by the angels, who fly off with her. Desperately, Penryn in turn, takes the injured angel and heals him, determined to find out about her sister. She learns that the fallen angel is Raffe, who agrees to take her to the aerie, the home of the angels, hoping that they could help him get his wings back.


SHORT STORIES

- By T.S Arthur

The evil people try and shun a motherless, poor and disabled girl. A man with a mean wife takes in the girl to find that she’s an innocent, pure soul. They tend to her and care for her due to her condition, physically, mentally and emotionally, and see that she’s an angel in disguise.

2.  The gift of the magi (1905)

- By O. Henry

It is a short story about a young married couple and how they deal with the challenge of buying secret Christmas gifts for each other with very little money. As a sentimental story with a moral lesson about gift-giving, it has been a popular one for adaptation, especially for presentation at Christmas time. The plot and its "twist ending" are well-known, and the ending is generally considered an example of comic irony. It was allegedly written at Pete's Tavern on Irving Place in New York City.

3.   To build a fire (1908)

- By Jack London

The 1908 "To Build a Fire" is an oft-cited example of the naturalist movement that portrays the conflict of man vs. nature. It also reflects what London learned in the Yukon Territory.

4.   Regret (1897)

- By Kate Chopin

This is a story about a fifty- year old Mamzelle Aurelie who unmarried women. She has never had a man and lives alone on her farm with some animals and Negroes working with her. One day, her nearest neighbor, Odile brought her four children to her house and left them in Mamzelle Aurelie’s care because of a dangerous illness of her mother. This is why Mamzelle Aurelie, who has never ever has children before has to keep them. For the next two weeks, Mamzelle Aurelie had to learn to care for the children and be accustomed to their presence and noises. At the end of two weeks, Odlie came back and released Mamzelle Aurelie from her responsibility, but Mamzelle Aurelie felt the loneliness in the absence of the four children, and  she cried “like a man, not even noticing her dog liciking her hand.


5.   On the gull’s road (1908)

- By Willa Cather

Another painter visits the narrator and he is mesmerised by his painting of Alexandra Ebbling. The narrator then thinks back to how he met her, on a ship from Genoa to the New York City, after living in Rome for work for two years. They start talking, stop in Naples for a day, then sail by Sardinia. He moves on to doing a portrait of her, and he gives her a bunch of magnolias he got in Gibraltar and she talks about her ailment for the first time. Two days later when he sees her husband neglects her just before going to a concert on the ship, he goes and tells her they should run away together because they love each other. She explains she can't because she is ill. She gives him a box that he shall only open sometime later, when she tells him to by letter. She then takes a ship back to her father's in Norway without her husband. The following March, he receives a letter from him saying she has died. There is also a letter from her, telling him he can open the box now. Inside, there is a magnolia, strands of her hair, and two pink shells.


Poems

1. Alone- By Edgar Allan Poe
2. I Dwell in Possibility- By Emily Dickinson
3. PreludesBy T.S Eliot
4. If You Forget Me- By Pablo Neruda
5. The Road Not Taken - By Robert Frost
6. Life is Fine- By Langston Hughes
7. Phenomenal WomenBy Maya Angelou
8. To You- By Walt Whitman
9. Touched by an Angel- By Maya Angelou
10. Seeker of Truth By E.E Cummings


Plays


Macbeth
Macbeth is a tragedy written by William Shakespeare, and is considered one of his darkest and most powerful works.
First performance: April 1611
Playwright: William Shakespeare
Original language: English
Genre: Tragedy
Characters: Lady Macbeth, Banquo, King Duncan, Three Witches, more
Soundtrack: Macbeth
Hamlet
Published: 1603
Playwright: William Shakespeare
Original language: English
Genre: Tragedy
Adaptations: Haider (2014), Hamlet A.D.D. (2014), more
Characters: Ophelia, King Claudius, Polonius, Gertrude, Horatio, more
Romeo and Juliet
Romeo and Juliet is a tragedy written by William Shakespeare early in his career about two young star-crossed lovers whose deaths ultimately reconcile their feuding families.
Published: 1597
Playwright: William Shakespeare
Lyricist: William Shakespeare
Characters: Juliet, Romeo, Tybalt, Mercutio, Benvolio, more
Adaptations: Romeo and Juliet (2013), Private Romeo (2011), more
Genres: Tragedy, Play
Play by William Shakespeare
The Tragedy of Julius Caesar is a tragedy by William Shakespeare, believed to have been written in 1599.
First performance: September 21, 1599
Playwright: William Shakespeare
Characters: Marcus Junius Brutus, Julius Caesar, Mark Antony, more
Adaptations: Julius Caesar (2012), Caesar Must Die (2012), more
Henry V
Play by William Shakespeare
Henry V is a history play by William Shakespeare, believed to have been written in approximately 1599.
Original language: English
Playwright: William Shakespeare
Characters: Earl of Salisbury, Duke of Exeter, Duke of Bedford, more
Adaptations: Henry V (1989), Chimes at Midnight (1965), Henry V (1944)

Julius Caesar
Play by William Shakespeare
The Tragedy of Julius Caesar is a tragedy by William Shakespeare, believed to have been written in 1599.

First performance: September 21, 1599
Playwright: William Shakespeare
Characters: Marcus Junius Brutus, Julius Caesar, Mark Antony, more
Adaptations: Julius Caesar (2012), Caesar Must Die (2012), more